to just get ds teaching assistant a present ?

[x2boys]

Ds is four he is autistic with learning difficulties he finishes his nursery year in two weeks the staff have pretty much left him alone apart from his teaching assistant who has been fantastic with him , she has taken the time to get to know really seems to care about him and always goes out of her way to let me know how he has been which other staff refuse to do I want together her some flowers just so she knows how much we appreciate her efforts but don't want to make a big issue so was thinking of leaving it at the school office for her .

Get the TA something but give them to her, or maybe your DS could? It won't make a show, if anything it is an acknowledgement of all HER hard work

It's fine.

Presents aren't obligatory and as she is the one putting the effort and care in, it's fine that she's the only one to get something.

Would your DS be able to give them to her himself? If he can she would love that. But please don't be embarrassed about giving her something directly and not others. I'm sure they will get enough.

Yes ds could give the present to her which would be lovely but I just feel a bit funny about it his teacher has not really done anything or the other teaching assistant .

Don't feel funny. The present should be for the person that matters.

And she'll be thrilled!

Yanbu

Thankyou I will make sure ds gives ta the present then x