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to be pissed off about the front page of the sun newspaper today

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laverneandshirl · 04/07/2014 14:22

Slut-shaming at it's worst.

Walked past it in the newsagents and just felt so sorry for the girl, her face is pretty recognisable in the paper copy. She should be allowed to forget it and move on with her life.

Why are they not investigating the bar owners who allowed this twisted trick to be played on a vulnerable drunken teenager?

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unlucky83 · 04/07/2014 16:38

OMG - totallynsfw.com?
Should have known better but someone says don't - so you do...really really don't...
Just curious - thought it was a teen social media site - but it is absolutely graphic pornographic images.
I didn't click the link to this poor girl but on the first page- the link - they haven't even tried to obscure her face SadSadSad
What a fucked up world we live in...

CiderLover · 04/07/2014 16:45

As an adult she should be able to do whatever she likes as long as she is not hurting anyone.

She has been nationally humiliated.

Seems you can't do anything these days without people filming or photographing.

I wouldn't have done what she did and think it's pretty vile but who am I to judge? It's her life.

Shame on the media for exploiting her

Maryz · 04/07/2014 16:52

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HelpMeGetOutOfHere · 04/07/2014 17:12

A lot of us have done stupid things when drunk. But we are old enough to not have to worry about social media and smart phones. Mind you I never did anything like that. Drunken snogs etc. never went on a 20's or 18-30 holiday but holidays with the girls etc.

On one hand I feel sorry for her as this is put there now but on the other hand 24 blow jobs for a holiday?? I don't think I could do that for a million quid let alone a holiday worth a couple of hundred.

LastTango · 04/07/2014 17:17

I don't think she consented to having the video distributed everywhere

You really really think in this day and age of phones that can video that she would be surprised that someone videoed it?

There is such a thing as dignity even when drunk, you know.

She was over 18, got drunk, and agreed to bj 24 men! Silly girl.

Steben · 04/07/2014 17:18

Without clicking on the link what is she actually doing? Does she finish them off or just put each of then in her mouth before moving on (a sentence I never thought I would write) surely if she was giving 24 bjs she would be there all night?!

This is similar to that poor girl in Ireland who was shamed in a similar way at that eminen concert in Ireland a while back.

Shocking and I am sure she is full of regret but will have to live with this forever thanks to social media Hmm

laverneandshirl · 04/07/2014 17:19

Maryz, totally agree.

How is it in the public interest that this story is covered in this way? She hasn't committed a crime. She could've easily been left out of it. It's up to her to decide whether she wants to be named. On the day Coulson was going for sentencing it says it all when some kid's holiday is used to obscure News International's role in hacking Milly Dowler's phone.

The starting point for the whole story should've been about how/why this event was organised in the first place - not the girl and who she is.

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Nanny0gg · 04/07/2014 17:28

I don't get it.

She was drunk. So how could she possible have given informed consent to those actions?

Hideous. And I agree with everything MaryZ said.

TucsonGirl · 04/07/2014 17:35

"Without clicking on the link what is she actually doing? Does she finish them off or just put each of then in her mouth before moving on"
The latter.

"I don't get it.

She was drunk. So how could she possible have given informed consent to those actions?"
She was the active participant! It isn't a case of (sorry if this is offensive) her sitting there and men putting their cock in her mouth. She was running round the nightclub asking guys to let her do it and in at least one case, helping them unbuckle.

No-one comes out of this story very well. But the idea that she is some shrinking violet violated by 24 "nasty men" is ridiculous. Some of the guys looked very reluctant but were probably scared to say no in front of their peers. The promoters are more at fault than anyone. But even saying that, all the participants were adults and therefore accountable for their own actions.

ChillieJeanie · 04/07/2014 17:36

She hasn't committed a crime.

Is performing sex acts in public not illegal in Magaluf then? It is in the UK.

Maryz · 04/07/2014 17:38

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Sallyingforth · 04/07/2014 17:42

YANBU to be pissed off at the Sun.
YABU to call it a newspaper.

Mrsjayy · 04/07/2014 18:02

Right this woman went on holiday and took part in sex games the sun didnt slut shame her she went to the paper maybe we should be going after holiday companies who pedal this shitvas a good holiday, exploiting young people plying them with drink, they mayor of the place has been in touch with the bar involved , I do feel for the girl but a bit of personal boundry and rresponsibility is needed

Mrsjayy · 04/07/2014 18:04

This isnt unusual for these resorts its get them pissed and lets see what they can get up to next,

Mrsjayy · 04/07/2014 18:06

This isnt unusual for these resorts its get them pissed and lets see what they can get up to next,

donnie · 04/07/2014 18:08

ghastly, dim-witted, sordid chavs the lot of them. Whaddya expect from the Sun though ?

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