I hate my dh

[buffythebarbieslayer]

I do, I really do

Since the arrival of dc3 8 weeks ago I can't bear him. I can't bear him touching me or sleeping in the same bed. It was bliss when he was ill recently and had to sleep in spare room. He tried to hug me recently and I felt like dying inside. I cry at the thought of sex.

What's happened? It's freaking me out. We were always solid even after first two dc. I feel like this third baby has ruined us and ruined me. I want to run away with my baby because I'm sick of everyone else's demands.

You've already identified you have a problem. Please, go and speak to your GP and get help.

I agree it sounds like pnd. It's nothing to be ashamed off and ime of friends who have multiple dc it isactually quite normal so don't panic yet!

I have 1 dd and 2 dsc's and after a day of dealing with them all the last thing I want or need is dp pawing at me or being needy about hugs or kisses. At first he felt pushed away but when I explained that I am just so tired I am not interested in anything he did understand and deals with it much better now so try talking to him about how you feel

Dp and I have yet to reinstate a sexual side to our relationship but we have both been exhausted as he works nights and dd is teething so I am up 2-3 times a night but we are still close and snuggle a lot and affectionate in other ways

Talk to your hv and your dp and I hope it gets better soon