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To think I am 100 right on this one

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Thefishewife · 30/06/2014 21:17

Right I have made some friends through my bestie however one of these girls have become increasingly rasicst in the thoughts and deeds she has always been a little UKIP however this has gotten worse since she's started dated this guy she is seeing any who

Over the last couple Of months it has got really bad at first I tried to ignore and give the benefit of a doubt however after she started posting thing from "Britain first" which is a off shoot of the BMP I had to draw the line so I removed her from face book then the next time I saw her pulled her aside and just said with out raised voice or shouting or anything I. Am really sorry but I can no longer have you on my Facebook as you been posting things that make me feel uncomfortable I asked her to let me explain,

She shouted I a,always on my high horse and then ran off with out letting me explain.

She then proceeded to go on Facebook and slag me off with her boyfriend and another mutual friend of our her best mate and now this mutual friend who I have no issue with had de friended me which I think is really off and this person has said she will never speak to me again (confused)

My bestie who introduced us in the first place is horrified and did try to explain to this girl that she is entitled to her views (however wrong I think they are) but I personally just don't won't to be exposed to them and that weather she feels I am wrong at least I had the balls to tell her directly why I felt I had to take her off unlike her who just had a big slag festival on line I feel she has been very immature firstly not telling me to my face how she feels , then going on Facebook with it all and then involving others who have nowt to do with it.
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HappyAgainOneDay · 01/07/2014 08:17

Is this thread worth carrying on with?

HatieKokpins · 01/07/2014 08:58

*"If you just select 'hide all posts from this person' then they will never know and you wouldn't have had all this angst."

THIS. Sheesh. Put her on mute, ignore her posts. Why get all high-horsey IN HER FACE about defriending? You're never going to agree, but "taking her aside" and explaining it was never going to end well.

Numanoid · 01/07/2014 09:04

YANBU for deleting her from your friends list, maybe a bit unreasonable to make a point of pulling her aside to say so, though.

I've deleted UKIP/Britain First supporters from my friends list too, but would only mention why if they asked me.

OnlyLovers · 01/07/2014 09:22

You could have just defriended her and then explained why if she asked, rather than making a thing out of telling her you'd defriended her.

But I think her slagging you off and other friends ganging up and defriending you is a bit childish. Maybe you're better off without them if they're happy to behave like that.

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