To want to get involved and stick up for my friend ?

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My friend was at a school fair with her 2 daughters (not our school) and this mum came to her and called her a bitch and a tramp and she should stop feeding crisps her bullying little shit of a daughter...all of this was said in the front of her 2 dds 8 and 4. There is obviously back story, my friend has been having problems with woman for some times. This woman niece bullied my friend's dd, the police had to be involved because it was not dealt with it by the headmaster. This woman was horrible to my friend, called her names...now for some reasons, this woman's bullying has started again. My friend called the police to report her but she is now worried to go to school tomorrow :-( what can I do to help my friend, I really want to confront the other woman !

Don't do that, it's really nothing to do with you, and is a bit childish to be honest.

Let your friend deal with it in the proper way.

You would be of greater support to your friend if you DID NOT confront this women. It will make the situation 10 times worse.

Tell your friend to take her DD directly to the school office thus avoiding any confrontation with this women. She should explain the situation and say that for the foreseeable future she will be dropping off and collecting her children at the office.

Be there as emotional support.

This is so awful. The whole thing sounds completely immature.
Just stay out of it, you'll only make things worse!

Would you be able to accompany your friend on her school run?

unless you are built like Bea Smith from Prisoner Cell Block H, I would stay out of it and let the police handle it. You are likely to just inflame the matter, especially if the other woman tells the police her antagonist "set her friends" on her.

I won't do anything, I will be there for my friend. I'll go to school with her and we will leave together. My poor friend, she was so upset.

I'm having to deal with a similar idiot at DD's school. Just knowing that my mate wants to confront this freak of nature is more than enough support.

Don't get involved but just carry on being an ear for her to rant at. You will make things worse if you get involved, at the moment she has the upper hand by doing things by the book. You getting involved will rob her of that and the bitch will use it against her to anyone and everyone that will listen.