Ok I met a guy online a couple of weeks ago. When we first met I didn't really fancy him but he was very intelligent, and honest and seemed to be quite emotionally aware ( unlike most guys I meet). I was prepared to give him a chance so invited him to mine for dinner the week after. Every day after the first date he'd send me a text asking me how I was. We had a lovely dinner, he brought wine, flowers and a dessert. We had great conversation and he went home at midnight. I said I was really looking forward to getting to know him better but wanted to take it slow.
So I got a text from him today saying he'd met someone on Plenty of Fish at the weekend and wanted to pursue that and ' hoped I'd understand!' And that he ' had to follow his heart'. Ok I know people multi date on the internet but he'd lead me to think that he really liked me and had offered to do some work around the house for me ( I hadn't asked, he'd offered )
I wasn't sure about I felt about him, I liked him a log but wasn't very sexually attracted to him. Was a bit gobsmacked today tho when I got his message as I thought he liked me. Is he just fickle and am I best out of it?
Also, I didn't really find him sexually attractive and tbh feel a bit affronted that a man who isn't very physically attractive, has rejected me ( superficial I know, but just taps into previous rejections from men...)