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AIBU?

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to feel angry at my friend/ friends?

8 replies

Needsmorecake · 20/06/2014 17:03

We had organised a night out for tonight. It was with her old work mates, where i still work, so, i had organised it, chased people up, told people about it, etc..

I felt rubbish last night and went to bed super early in the hope of feeling better this morning, but i didnt sleep at all, got up for work anyway, got dressed for work and then broke out into a cold, clammy sweat and felt all light headed and dizzy, so had to call in sick.

I have spent most of the day in bed, sleeping.

I text my friend first thing to let her know i was ill and might not make tonight, then, i text her again later, when it was obvious i wouldnt make it at all.

she replied and said that getting out of it isnt an option, that im to rest and drink fluids and she will be picking me up later.

I did reply, that i really couldnt go, That ive called into work sick, and now this will be picked up from work as its 3 times in 6 months, so, i wouldnt have done so unless i really was unwell and that going out drinking on the same night, with work friends is not something that is going to help at all.

ive had no reply since and expect she is sulking. I have let everyone else know by fb and noone has said anything and pretty much ignored me.

AIBU?

OP posts:
Waltermittythesequel · 20/06/2014 17:05

AYBU about what?!

If you're sick you can't go.

I'd expect she was trying to rally you but now knows you're serious.

I don't see how not responding to a FB post is 'ignoring' really. You don't know that they've seen it/had time to respond.

I'd let it go, really. Seems like a total non issue.

expatinscotland · 20/06/2014 17:13

Go back to bed. Turn off the phone and don't answer the door.

Needsmorecake · 20/06/2014 17:17

It feels like she is having a strop because i cant go, or, that she might just turn up anyway.

the others have seen my post on fb, you can see that they have seen the message. someone posted to say ' we are still going out' but noone said anything else, so i feel like they are pissed off with me.

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Happydaysatlast · 20/06/2014 17:18

Maybe they are just busy getting ready to go out?

You sound guilty though op. If you are ill you are ill. Stop worrying.

Needsmorecake · 20/06/2014 17:20

no, i messaged them at lunchtime, noone takes that long to get ready
( most of them are men too)

i feel bad for letting people down, thats all and feel like they are pissed off with me

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Nomama · 20/06/2014 17:23

I doubt they are pissed off with you. They are more likely to be a bot mortified - you arranged it, chased it up, made sure it would happen and then had to bail cos you are ill!

Anyone who looks at you sideways for that is a pillock!

Get some sleep, I hope you feel better soon.

Waltermittythesequel · 20/06/2014 20:11

so what if they are?!

What's your AIBU question? It's a bit unclear. You're pissed off because you think they are??

noneofyours · 20/06/2014 21:29

So what if they are OP? If they are, they're dicks- short and simple.

Unless you're a 'one' for pulling out of things last thing then it should be 'a shame she can't come out'. Stop worrying, shut off your computer and rest up. Hopefully you can chill the rest of the weekend.

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