It was my sons birthday on Monday, we had a party for him on Saturday which BIL and his son came along to. They didn't bring a present - fair enough we thought as we'll probably see them on his actual birthday. We've still not heard anything from them apart from a Facebook comment from SIL.
Is it grabby to be a bit pissed off by this? I suppose there's nothing to say they have to get him a present or card. He is known to be a bit thoughtless about other people. I don't want to ask them about it in case they have purposefully decided not to get him anything cos you can't really argue with that, it's their choice etc.