To not Let hubby know I have this day off

[Lancashiregal10]

I have posted re having issues with hubby being a prick about my epilespy and expecting me to do everything
Well we are going away the week after next and this morning he dropped a bombshell on me that is away for two days at the beginning of next week with work. Not asked he has volunteered
as he will get to

Sorry posted early

As he will get to play a lot of sport. Again not asked I was told (we also have a 10 month DS)
Anyway I have built up enough time at work to take a flexi day next week and can next Thursday but if I tell DH he will expect me to do all the packing for the week after whereas if I don't tell him he will have to his share one night and he has also offered to pack for ds as a sweetner for him going away and I will only have to pack for me
DS is going to my parents and I have to offered to keep him with me off course but they are taking him out with the other grandchildren and still want him even though I am off
So AIBU is a dont tell DH I have the day off and put my feet off.

Obviously not unreasonable

But be aware that your rest will backfire as twat features will not see you tired - instead he will just see you coping and think you're making up your tiredness

Why be with someone who doesn't listen to you when you say you need your rest

Op I think it's sad that your relationship has come to this, where you have to lie to your DH. He's being very unsupportive of you and him deciding to go on this trip without discussing with you is not how healthy relationships function. I think your problems are much bigger than this.

Totally agree. I am thinking is this could be the end and looking at my options
But I have said before in posts I am worried he will use epilepsy against me
Cant post again for a while as going in a meeting but will update tonight

Take the day off, and use the time for yourself to decide what you want to do and make plans to go about it.