To be hurt and upset at dh.

[Imsuchamess]

I have always been a size 8 (baring pg) but since I started anti psychs I have gone up to a 12-14.

I was very nervous about starting them because of weight gain and my dh promised and reassured me it didn't matter.

I am in recovery from a psychotic episode and focusing my energy on getting the house up to scratch and getting my mental health in a stronger place.

Dh keeps on suggesting I go on a diet and start my x trainer again. Or making comments about my weight. I find this upsetting as right now I am feeling down about my weight but I have more important things to worry about right now.

Imsuchamess can you explain a bit more about "getting the house up to scratch"? I'm wondering why this was in your OP as it doesn't seem that relevant to the problem in hand.

Those comments he made were quite cruel and definitely unnecessary. He certainly isn't being supportive and focusing on something like your weight which he knows you are sensitive about is not the actions of a decent partner.

Exercise can be good for the mood but he doesn't seem to have your interests at heart

Do exercise for you not fir anybody else.

I don't think this is normal behaviour. You have much more going on right now that needs support and you're supposed to be able to get it from him.

I would simply say to him Perhaps you think you are helping me by making comments about my weight, but actually you're not. I am prioritising my mental health. Can you stop commenting about the weight now? That is what would help me most.