Our daughter is 7 and we've been separated since she was a baby. Ex-husband had very little to do with her when we were married but has always been concerned with his rights to her. He's seen her minimal amounts (2 nights per month) since then though I've offered midweek and school holiday contact too. He's taken her out for tea very rarely.
His gf has chicken pox, dd hasn't had it and neither have I. I'm 26 weeks pregnant so obviously it isn't great for me to catch it so I cancelled his scheduled nights contact as he wasn't prepared to do so or swap. Rather than respond by giving alternative dates or rearranging he's had a go at me then gone quiet. I could keep contacting him offering alternatives but he is pretty poor with dd and she looked visibly relieved when I cancelled contact.
I'm guessing his next step will be taking me to court as his parents will fund it but feel like I shouldn't have to keep offering dd out, that if he'd like contact then he should contact me. If he was great with dd or she asked to see him I might think differently, but that isn't the case. Aibu to leave him to contact me?