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Please reassure me I'm not the only DP in the UK that allows and actively encourages my dc to climb trees

186 replies

keepyourchinupdear · 12/06/2014 22:21

As per the caption... Am I wrong in doing this? I never see dc climbing trees or playing outdoors - am I the only one?

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hmc · 12/06/2014 23:21

She'll probably bring home a gold medal too (overt boast)

hmc · 12/06/2014 23:26

this says he fell from a tree

ErrolTheDragon · 12/06/2014 23:28

Don't think anyone actually said that (other than a sarcastically). Good luck to your DD!Smile

Pantone363 · 12/06/2014 23:30

Yes and no.

DP is a tree surgeon and doesn't let them climb very hugh. His reasoning being how many rotten limbs he has seen that look fine from the outside and also how easy it is to slip/fall. So they do climb but not high

hmc · 12/06/2014 23:30

Thanks Errol Smile

hmc · 12/06/2014 23:31

Mine too Pantone - they can climb, but not high

ErrolTheDragon · 12/06/2014 23:35

That link about Steve Brown says he fell from a tree while working as a tree surgeon.

We've always taught our DD to check that a limb is sound - and to think about how to get down before going up, so she's never gone too high.

lia66 · 12/06/2014 23:36

We have a great tree in our garden, pruned beautifully by the previous owner especially so that children could get up into itGrin

We also have a fab tree house built into a big tree that dd fell out of on Sunday andfractured her wrist-- but as soon as the cast is off, she'll be back up there with the others Smile]

EddieStobbart · 12/06/2014 23:37

Yes they do. I think it's an important skill to have mastered in anticipation of the zombie apocalypse.

lia66 · 12/06/2014 23:37

Gahh strikeout fail

keepyourchinupdear · 12/06/2014 23:37

See, Pantone, my dad was a Forrester & taught us to 'feel for' the branch. So I don't quite get that. I had a tree house as a child & used to adore climbing trees as part of the outdoor adventure. Dc loves it too. I'm sad there's few to climb round here & no dc seem to clumb trees in general anymore

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ErrolTheDragon · 12/06/2014 23:38

Anyway... I think the OP can be reassured that there are lots of children climbing trees, mountains and otherwise active.

keepyourchinupdear · 12/06/2014 23:39

lia66 that's lovely to hear

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ErrolTheDragon · 12/06/2014 23:40

eh? xpost... this thread is mostly people saying their kids do climb!

keepyourchinupdear · 12/06/2014 23:41

Errol I really hope so...

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GoblinLittleOwl · 12/06/2014 23:49

If you go to National Trust properties they actively encourage children to climb trees; it's one of life's pleasures.

WorraLiberty · 12/06/2014 23:49

My kids also play conkers without wearing protective eye equipment, crash helmets and lead lined gloves.

stayathomegardener · 12/06/2014 23:49

Can't keep DD down,even now at 15. She has found the sweet spot in the big Oak tree where she can get wifi!

CheerfulYank · 12/06/2014 23:53

Of course you're not the only one! My older one climbs all manner of things and has been out back playing for five straight hours.

wobblyweebles · 13/06/2014 00:14

I'm not in the UK so possibly not allowed to answer... but my children climb trees. Ironically our house is surrounded by woodlands but none of the trees are climbable. I think we're going to have to put in some ladders.

Idontseeanyicegiants · 13/06/2014 00:23

They're not huge fans of tree climbing - especially after the concussion and fractured wrist incident a couple of years ago (mine Grin)however The 2 older ones will climb up one particular tree to reach the damsons others can't. Because like me they're too old, overweight and likely to fall out of said tree...

Idontseeanyicegiants · 13/06/2014 00:29

They meaning the other adults. Not my children.

gingee · 13/06/2014 00:54

My dd aged 11 a few years ago was out and about in the local park with her best bud, they climbed a small ish tree which was their hang-out spot, dd fell out of it landed flat on her back and a woman came rushing over screaming like dd had really hurt herself, dd sat up, was totally fine and laughing her head off. The woman then accompanied dd and her friend home because she was very concerned about them being out alone (at 4pm in summer time) wandering around when 'anyone could be about', we lived a literal 2 minute walk across a quiet road and then a pelican crossing to the park. You can bet her kids never played out!

Hurr1cane · 13/06/2014 06:29

I'm a vegetarian, but we are animals and we are meant to climb trees, run through fields and splash in rivers. So my DS is allowed to do all these things.

It's way more fun than waiting your turn to climb up a metal frame with foot holes.

parentalunit · 13/06/2014 06:51

Yes, I instinctually notice good climbing trees, and hint to my children to go and play. I love to see them enjoying themselves and really hope that they get into climbing and bouldering when they're in their teens!.