The other night I had an early night while DH was at pub. Our upstairs neighbour woke me up with his radio. I lay there hoping he'd leave the kitchen and turn radio off but he didn't so hoping turned to fuming.
DH came home so, pretty pissed off by now I asked him to text neighbour and ask him to turn radio down.
DH did this but -surprise - neighbour didn't hear it so nothing changed.
So, mightily angry by now I asked, not very reasonably, DH to go upstairs and knock on door to ask neighbour. Neighbour does this a lot btw but is always v polite and turns down when asked.
DH just won't do it. He doesn't say he won't do it, just keeps saying 'I've texted'.
I am furious by now, not just with neighbour but with DH cos I just don't get why he won't do what needs to be done. He's dressed etc. I'm not - I've been in bed remember. So DH and I have a blazing row in which he says the radio is 'not his problem' which infuriates me even more. I call him spineless (it's always me who has to be bad cop and usually that's fine but, really) I accept this was rude.
I think his attitude demonstrates DH holds me in v low regard.
He says he refused to do it cos I was shouting at him and I'd refuse to do anything if shouted at.
I've slept in spare room since row and am still angry and think DH was contemptuous of me.
AIBU?