My DP and I are engaged, we live together with my DS (4) and his DSD (6) who stays weekends.
Last night I went food shopping with my mum, I didn't have the money for the shop in my bank account, and I asked him to transfer some over, he said he didn't have time to do it, so I could take his card instead, gave me the pin and the card.
My mum dropped me home from shopping, and we had a row about the fact he doesn't like me speaking to my mum so much, and I shouldn't be telling her about our arguments.
It got bad, and eventually I asked him to go out and calm down. He refused, he started barging me to get into our bedroom and threatened to take my sons bed away because we bought on his card. I called his parents and asked them to come and collect him because he was being aggressive and refusing to leave. I didn't want to call the police because I felt like it was a waste of there time, and didn't want him to receive a caution because it could effect his contact with DSD.
Before his parents got here, he went mad that id called them, calling me a cunt and telling me he was going to report me for card fraud, when he gave me the card and pin, it was for food for the home and he lives here too.
My friend said its financial abuse, and I need to leave asap. My heads in a mess and I don't know what to do.