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AIBU?

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to kick him out?

3 replies

janesxx · 08/06/2014 23:52

DP and I have recently split up after being together 4 years, DS has just turned 1 and the whole year ive felt like a single mother as DP is always out doing his own thing, when we split up 3 weeks ago I told him he could still live with me until he finds a place (he literally has nowhere to go) so past couple weeks hes been sleeping in another room been abit awkward but I couldnt throw him out on the streets.. so other day he left his facebook on.. know I shouldn't have but I looked on his messages and he has been messaging women while we were together aranging to meet up, I was angry but not as angry as I seen the more recent ones telling other women and his friends that I threw him out and hes been sleeping on the streets for weeks!! Im absolutely fuming as I had the decency to let him stay and hes been lying to people either for sympathy or to make me look like a horrible person.. this is a whole new side to him that ive never seen and I cant even talk t him after this... so AIBU to really kick him out?

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Littledidsheknow · 08/06/2014 23:55

You know you're not, Jane.
I feel sorry for you that you had a child with this man. No matter, kick him out onto streets forthwith, whether or not he has anywhere to go. You are an awful bitch (according to him) after all!
Good luck, be strong

JaycesMummy · 08/06/2014 23:59

No you're not Jane, the messaging and arranging to meet other women is not on, if someone did that to me, I wouldn't be able to look at him let alone have him in my house.

olgaga · 09/06/2014 00:02

Get shot of him. Tell him you'd like to help him by providing an authentic sob story.

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