A friend of mine has just had a close member of their family kill themselves. As I lost my partner many years ago the same way I do kind of understand how they feel and shared with them something that someone told me after he died. It is something that helped me get through the first few weeks and I still remember it - although many memories of that time are blurred or non-existent. Now I'm wondering whether I've done the right thing....I haven't heard from them, but then, wouldn't expect to....just hope I didn't upset them. It really was just advice about taking each day as it came and, if you can't deal with a whole day, then just concentrate on one hour at a time....I really don't want to upset them, but now not sure if I should have said it....