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To Say Pick Me To Vendor

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pupsiecola · 05/06/2014 15:29

We viewed a house yesterday. Another couple were already there when we arrived and had made a verbal offer to the vendor before leaving (before we got there). Vendor got told off by agent for engaging in talking dosh directly with viewers. We made an offer an hour later via the agent. I suspect we have both offered the asking price. Due diligence re finances has been done. We are in a strong position there. We are also renting atm as are the other viewers. Obviously it may get into a bidding war and other viewings are lined up over the next few days. House had been on for one day. Properties in the area sell like hotcakes. I suspect the house has been undervalued and if I were the vendor with just one day on the market and two offers of asking price (our first offer of 10k below was rejected) I would be in no rush to accept but would let the other viewings play out. However, they have not moved house for 26 years and are perhaps a bit naive - am sure agent will put them straight though! Also they have found the house they want to move into and have now (since receiving our two offers) put an offer in on that one. I think they are just keen to get a fair price and not draw things out, and not lose this house they have seen.

I know this is probably a bit underhand and I am 95% sure I won't do it (and I consider the viewers before us putting an offer directly to the vendors a bit underhand too) but I am 5% wanting to put a note through the door saying "pick us"?! It has been vendors family home for 26 years. They raised their kids there who are now at uni. I get that it's hard for them to be selling. Lots of memories. Can I ask her to pick us cos we will look after it or is that below the belt and as good as emotional blackmail?! If it were me selling (offers being the same and financial position/ability to move quickly both being the same too) I would actually pick the family who I thought would look after and enjoy the home I had raised my kids in, but then I'm a soppy old wotsit.

But then again, is it just fair game in a very stressful housing market?!

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CheeryName · 05/06/2014 21:32

Hooray! Best wishes for a smooth move!

pupsiecola · 30/07/2014 08:55

Just a quick update. We exchanged yesterday and complete tomorrow. Our vendor is lovely - has apologised for not being able to fill the holes in one room as she's run out of time, so she has left us the bathroom cabinet to make up for it (have seen the cabinet, and her leaving it for us is a good think lol).

Been a bit of a whirlwind but we got there!

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Efferlunt · 30/07/2014 09:18

Wow nice and quick! Congratulations!

Trickydecision · 30/07/2014 09:26

Lovely news, hope you will be very happy there.

Gennz · 30/07/2014 09:32

Congratulations pupsie

Just wanted to say that we got our place despite slightly lower offer because we were a young couple, just married, buying our first home, versus the other bidder who was off-shore and was going to rent it out. (Also we were able to settle 4 weeks earlier which would have offset the v small difference between our offers). For the wife vendor the fact that it was going to be our home was the persuading factor in selling us the house - we've been here 5 years and we love it.

If we ever sell it will be a factor for us too.

essexisnotallitseems · 30/07/2014 11:15

My parents sold the family home of some 35 years - popular area, décor was dated but the house was in very sound condition and the garden lovely so lots of interest.

They sold to the couple with three children who came once, then came again and my dad was spying on them as they left and said they turned round and looked at the house, then at each other then left holding hands - at that point he decided if their offer was reasonable he'd accept it. Emotions probably shouldn't come into these transactions but of course they do - the house going to another family who clearly really wanted it which made it easier for my parents to let go and move on themselves to the next part of their lives.

pupsiecola · 30/07/2014 17:13

That's so lovely essex.

Glad you got your house Gennz.

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