NC for this.
last year i discovered i was, I worked out from my last period that i was about 6 weeks pregnant. I started to get used to the idea of having a child but sadly i woke up one morning about 7 and half weeks and realised i was bleeding it wasn't a lot just very light spotting so i kept an eye on it for the day.I visted my doctors surgery the next day as the bleeding persissted. i was booked for an 'emergancy' appointment and was waiting for 2 and a half hours to be seen.
I explained to the gp about being pregnant (15 postive tests over about a week and a half) and the bleeding etc. she wanted me to take another test so i did a sample she dipped it and just blunty says " oh,it's negative looks like you have miscarried. " i didn't really know what to say i was just in floods of tears. she then went on to say " you could take another urine test in the morning to see if that one is positive" i grasped at that hope and asked if the blood in my urine could be giving me a false reading. she then laughed at me, shook her head saying no and opened the door for me to leave. All with a big cheery smile on her face.
I fell pregnant again very shortly afterwards ( turns out just 2 weeks after my MC started) I had horrendous morning sickness and was hospitalised for a week on IV's. i thought i was just sick until they told me i was pregnant and diagnosed me with HG.
when i got home the sickness persisted so decided to go back to the gp for some anti-sickness meds she told me that 'morning sickness is not as bad as i make out she has 4 children she knows how it feels.' It took me all i had to resist snapping. i hadn't eaten without being sick for weeks i couldn't keep anything at all down including water. i swollowed a very very small chunk of ice and i was sick so quickly it was still frozen coming back up!! i couldnt stand straight i could barely hold my own head up i was that dehydrated again yet she had the audacity to claim 'it isn't that bad'
i just avoided my gp from then on. the midwife unit was across town anyway so besides perscriptions ( which the hopsital gave me after my seond admission) they could do all my care.
but now months later my DS is 5 months old and my partner is urging me to go to a doctor regarding personal/embarrassing 'issues' which exsisted way before DS and i had ignored for years. I wont go to the doctor on the basis of not wanting to desribe such personal things to that woman. I asked the receptionist if i could change doctors after the MC incident but apparently this is not possible so WIBU to insist demandto change doctors or perhaps even go to a completely different surgery ?
I'm sorry it's so long.