Prob a bit of both.
Had arranged to meet old school friend this week but didn't specify date/where. Said I'd look for something interesting nearer the time. Left it at that.
Had v stressful weekend as successful in a job application which wanted a sample of my work - spent weekend working on this (due by Sun night) - v stressful and unplanned. Felt quite ill on Mon. Friend messaged on Tues to say it's now this week, when will we meet. I had a surprise phone interview for this job Tues night so replied after it was over saying I'd try to find something. Felt ill and v busy Wed - tried but failed to find anything inspiring and had to go to stuff at my kid's school so facebooked Wed afternoon and said let's make it Thurs.
Then messaged her today with suggetions.
All this time, she's not bothered to reply at all. Know she's seen my facebook messages - but nothing. No response.
I know she's very busy as she's about to emigrate but I am also very busy - work, job applications, 3 kids etc (she's not working full-time, no kids). So bit peeved she's not bothered to reply - to suggest another date, somewhere we could go, if tonight is OK.
Now heard nothing from her so assume I'm not meeting her but it's annoying as I wasted a lot of time trying to find somewhere suitable to go and she won't reply to facebook and her phone is off!
AIBU in expecting someone to reply to messages? Or AIBU in having not fixed the date/event earlier in the week, as I'd originally planned (not knowing I was going to spend ages on job application)?
Pffff.