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to not see why parents don't make children enter their own work for competitions?

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Xihha · 23/05/2014 10:25

DDs school do little competitions (prize is usually a certificate, a badge and something small like a pencil or a sweet) the rules always say remember, this MUST be the child's own work yet every single competition there are entries that look nothing like the child's own work. As in really impressive cakes, better than a lot of adults can do, supposedly made by a 4 year old and beautiful handwriting from children who usually struggle to write their own name.

The teachers are pretty good at spotting the entries that have been done by parents and not letting them win but there were 2 mums at the gates earlier talking about how long they stayed up doing their child's entry for them and how hard it was trying to make it look like a child's work.

It just really annoys me, it's teaching your child its ok to cheat and its not fair on the kids who have stuck to the rules and worked really hard to then see they could of just got Mum/Dad to do it.

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Xihha · 23/05/2014 10:28

Especially as these are usually competitions that you pay 50p to enter (which goes to that months charity) not ones everyone has to enter for homework or anything.

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Nocomet · 23/05/2014 10:30

I have a totally craft phobic DD2, I have been known to 'help' with craft HW for a quiet life, but I wouldn't do anything with prizes involved!

Xihha · 23/05/2014 10:38

homework I can understand, I used to do my brothers for him as he despises craft but these are optional so if they don't fancy it surely they can just not enter.

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Swannery · 23/05/2014 10:46

It's barking. The whole point is to encourage the children to learn to do stuff themselves. I hate craft stuff and on the odd occasion when the children have entered for competitions I've had nothing to do with it whatever. I feel the same way about homework - it's up to them.
Why do the mums do this? What do their children get out of it?

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