FIL is very very very unwell. It's touch and go at the moment actually.
Ds's party is on Saturday. It feels wrong to still have it but otoh there's nothing I or ds can do re FIL and at 5 ds is going to be sad about his grandad but probably not really understand fully. He will understand his first proper party being cancelled though.
It feels so selfish to even be worrying about it but I am because if we are going to cancel I have to let people know.
What would you do? I think if it was my dad I would still want ds to have his party even if I didn't go myself. I don't expect dh to come.