Background. We have 3 boys aged 10, 8 and 21 months. I am virtually a sahm although I do run a small business very part time. Dh has history for treating family money as his. He has two relatively expensive hobbies. My hobby is inexpensive and when I wanted to take up another hobby which would cost about the same as his most expensive hobby I was told we can't afford it.
So we are due to go on holiday Saturday. However, it clashes with ds1 cub camp. I agreed to let dh take ds2 down on the Saturday so I could stay home and take ds2 to cub camp. I am happy to do this so he doesn't miss out. Dh wants to go down early to go to a festival that I will find boring so win win.
Whilst discuss ing the holiday dh asked me if I would mind him taking ds out for a restaurant meal. Of course I agreed. This was before he said we can't afford to eat out much so rest of the week we won't be eating out much.
Than he also said that if weather nice he will take ds 2 to a festival, theme park etc but when I come down with ds1 and 3 we will be doing simple cheap, local things.
Aibu to think this is taking the piss.