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To think this is a bit weird?

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moomin35 · 16/05/2014 17:56

My friends son is about to turn 6 in a few weeks time and for the first time ever I and my other half have been invited to his birthday which is for 'friends and family'. We've never been invited before and i know there has been a party each year. Is she just short on numbers or is the fact that I'm now pregnant the reason did her inviting me out the blue?

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magimedi · 16/05/2014 17:58

Maybe your friendship has got stronger over the last year?

Maybe they can afford to have more people this year?

schokolade · 16/05/2014 18:02

You're over thinking it! Just go and have a nice time if you'd like to, or politely decline if not.

wigglesrock · 16/05/2014 18:27

I'd think you have become better friends over the past year. I don't think many people try & make up numbers for a family & friends party.

Nunyabiz · 16/05/2014 18:33

I agree you are probably over thinking it but did you ever think your friend thought- what would someone without kids want to go to a child's birthday party for?
Perhaps now she is thinking, well obviously you are about to become a parent, that kind of indicates you like kids and might perhaps enjoy getting invited into 'the fold'.
I don't know. I invite close friends without kids to DD's birthday but only if I know they have a special relationship with her. Otherwise I would think they would be bored!

moomin35 · 16/05/2014 20:03

Yeh I did wonder that Nunyabiz and that would make sense and I can see why someone would do that..

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