Where do I go from here

[Nearlythebig50]

Not sure where to start,

Second marriage, been very happy for the last 12 years and I thought everything was good. My husband who is 10years older than me told me last night he don't find me sexually attractive anymore. Our sex life never been over the top but I thought things were good. When we are together we laugh, we have great times out and lovely holidays.

His off work for a few days and had a few beers yesterday, I wouldn't have said he was drunk but merry if that's the right word to use. I feel so hurt and not sure where to go from here, do I act like nothing been said or front him out tonight, I have to go to work now.

I feel like my world been turned upside down, am I over reacting or should I just put it down to the drink.

Ask him when he's sober?

Is he usually so rude and insensitive?

He is normally very caring, does nice things for me. Is a great help around the house. I never said much last night because I don't think it worth talking when his been drinking. He slept all night and I've been awake for most of it thinking about what he said.

I think you need to speak to him when sober! If you want to save your marriage and so does he, then maybe marriage counselling would be a considering. Thinking off you x

I hope he wakes up and says something sensible soon. Maybe there is some other stress going on that you don't know about?