NC for obvious reasons.
Okay, so I am a nanny. My employers are separated and therefore live in separate homes. It's quite a recent split.
The children are with Mum, so I work in Mum's home. I have never been to Dad's home. I work alongside the Dad quite often though and have a good working relationship with both parents.
Anyway, during small talk with the Dad today, he was talking about his house. I asked in passing what it's like, and he said 'you should come over and see it.' I thought he meant to tag along when the kids go over, so I said 'yeah cool!'
He then said 'yeah I'll cook us dinner one evening. We can watch a DVD maybe in front of the fire.'
At the time I didn't really take in what he said. I was just thinking of a night when I don't have to cook for once if I'm honest!!
Not long after the conversation, my friend text asking how my day was going. I dropped the meal into conversation and her response was 'that's fucking weird, you're not gonna go are you?'
So I started to question myself. I thought he might forget he'd asked or something so it didn't matter anyway. But then later in the day, the Dad said 'so, how about Tuesday night for dinner?'
I think it's gone too far now for me to change my mind!
So, do you think he is unreasonable to invite his nanny over in the evening? Or do you think it's unreasonable for me to be worrying about it?!
I know he is really lonely at the moment so I'd feel horrible not going and imagining him on his own at home. But what would the Mum say/think?!
Help!