Argh I'm absolutely fuming right now.
DD's father is a prat. He really is.
Over the last few weeks he has been pushing me a lot for more and more contact. He already saw DD for 2 full days a week (his days off) at my house. DD is only 4 months old and ebf so that is why contact is at my house at present.
Anyway, he said 2 full days (from 8am - 7pm) are not enough. I said fine, I understand - how about you come in the evenings before she goes to bed so you can kiss her goodnight etc. He moaned and said that still wasn't enough, why can't he stay overnight etc. i said no, end of conversation. Anyway, he starts coming round each evening to say goodnight to DD, so for an hour or so after work. Soon started turning up 30 mins late each time knowing full well what time she goes to bed, therefore ruining her routine.
I asked him to be more considerate as she is a baby and is very sensitive to any changes, and bedtime is something that we really have down to a T right now.
All of a sudden he has started texting really nasty things saying I am bipolar, disgusting, unstable etc. I think he is trying to set the scene for getting residence of DD. I realise that sounds extreme but I honestly think this is what he is doing.
I couldn't bear to lose my daughter.
I am a new mum, tired at the best of times, and he seems to be thriving on winding me up, scaring me and basically stressing me out.
WIBU to ask for advice please? I have no idea how to handle this.