I bet if a few people who are in work on this thread who cannot buy gave us a few details we could find them somewhere even if it meant children sleeping in parents' bed room for a few years or moving to somewhere like London zone 5 where I live.
Ok, Maria. I am up for the challenge, and actually would be enormously grateful for any helpful and realistic suggestions, as our circumstances seem quite dismal, and would happily not slip into a pit of despair.
We have 2DC (7&3), are Surrey/Sussex based and DP works locally, all on word of mouth due to excellent reputation (a rare builder type who is honest, works long hours and is particular about attention to detail). We have built up his business since the contract with developers for work on new builds, which he depended on 95% of his work, collapsed to zero in 2008. I also work part-time for a business which is growing, and which makes the most of and refreshes my skills and qualifications.
However, since we have had to move 3 times in the last four years, due to lls promising long lets and then selling up, we have little in the way if savings, and rely on tax credits and a small amount of housing benefit (less and less as DPs business and my work grows).
I am also a medium distance occasional carer for someone with severe, enduring and highly complex MH problems, who has been badly mis-treated by services in the past (judicial review, complaints initiated by GP and obstetrician as care of unborn child made at risk during hospital stay) which has led to HUGE trust issues, making relative largely dependent on support from family at times. There have been many occasions when I have had to choose between intervening in a suicide attempt to save a child's parent, and turning up to work, without which I don't get paid. I chose the first, and will do every time, unless I am 100% confident I can link her with someone who can intervene effectively (not always her care team).
So we are being evicted. In our village, there is one 3 bed property available to rent, which is over the LHA. No 2 bed properties. We MIGHT be ok if we took it on, absorbing the shortfall in bedroom tax (or whatever its called) but will depend on both our work increasing. However, since we claim HB, we have been told by Housing Officer that if we "over house" ourselves in this way and run into difficulty, we wouldn't be eligible to any help as would have made ourselves voluntarily homeless. It also will only be a 6 month contract to begin with (they all are) so even if we do this, we might be facing this upheaval again in 6 months time. So really that's out.
We are on the waiting list for social housing, but no idea how long this would take, possibly up to 2 years in B&B. We will also have to face being taken to court in order to get social housing, so this may affect our reputation locally.
I am scared shitless to buy, even with help from the government, because of the multiples in salary it would take.
Any suggestions, please feel free!