So I have been away on holiday with (d) h. Hopefully last holiday we have. Our toddler is hard work. Yet it was me who spent the day and evenings if I went out running round after her. A few evenings I had about an hour with older dd whilst he watched her in caravan but I did all basic childcare for her. He maybe once on twice sorted middle child who has soiling issues that was about it.
He did do some tidying but that's about it. I did most of the very basic cooking. One day I did breakfast for everyone. When I presented (d) h with his toast he replied I'm going to get marmite. No thank you. The other day at least I got a thank you but he never made breakfast for me when he did his.
One time walking to clubhouse I commented to dd that I was always running round after dd2. She replied well you're her mum. I just replied she has a dad too.
Since home he has managed to cook 1 meal (put frozen pizza in oven) but I had to take it out of oven before it burnt. After changing dd2 nappy which he smelled but didn't manage to change.
Today I went out with dd1 for 2 hours to find him playing computer games upstairs with dd2 downstairs. He did manage to dress her though.
He is upstairs again now whilst I am cooking dinner and looking after dd.
Tomorrow he will be at football most of day.
Feeling fed up aibu
I am mainly sahm with very smzll business.3 dc. Two primary aged and a toddler