Namechanger due to forgotten password - not been here for a while!
My sons father takes it upon himself to regularly use me as a verbal punchbag....I dont know why - he has a new gf and baby and we split up nearly 7 yrs ago!
I can take it, yes it upsets me sometimes but I try not to let it bother me and remember that his life must be very dull...
Anyhow, ds (8) went to tennis camp last week for 3 days (collected each evening) and one of the days I was in work....I live with my mum so she agreed to drop ds there in the morning. Ds is literally growing at the speed of light (age 8 in 12-13 clothes - height and stocky, future rugby player?) The day my dm was dropping ds off I had said to him 'wear your new converse high tops as we know these fit, and choose any trackys out of the drawer' it was 8 hours of tennis ffs!
Off I went to work, and ds was being collected by his dad later on.
I wake up the next day to a torrent of abuse via text saying ds looked a f**cking tramp blah blah blah - this is not my issue.....
Ds came home the next day in a new tracksuit and trainers and I said to him he looked lovely and where were the tracksuit pants he had gone to dads in.....his eyes literally filled up with tears traight away and said 'well dad told me i looked an effin tramp mum and threw them in the bin'
I am furious.....I feel my ds was bullied by his dad, which ihave been for years and I worry now this may happen with other issues etc.....