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AIBU?

To prefer eating in to going out for dinner/lunch?

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Purplepansies · 12/04/2014 15:48

I really do not enjoy going out to eat any more.I find it tedious waiting to be served,it is a gamble as to whether the food will be good/bad/mediocre,it costs a lot for a family of four and always makes me think what else we could have spent the money on, and yet its one of those things that everyone else seems to really enjoy.
I have two teens who really don't enjoy it either and there is endless faffing with things like "I'll have the beef but I don't want the gravy on it,I'll have the chicken but no sauce,I'll have the burger but plain with nothing on it".
Am I the only one who is like this?I far prefer cooking something myself at home ,eating it where and when I want and not handing over large amounts of cash for average food.
I have no problem getting a takeaway now and again its just the sitting down that drives me nuts.
I am being unreasonable aren't I?

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JapaneseMargaret · 12/04/2014 21:59

I cook from scratch every night, and love food, but the idea of eating in every night just depresses me...!

We love eating out. There are so many amazing places to eat here, that you need never go back to the same one, unless you love it.

Yes, I can imagine that if you're fussy, and only have mediocre places to choose from, then it's probably not worth it.

But the thought of only ever staying in for the rest of my life, God no. Eating out is DH's and my thing, and we love the fact that the kids are now getting to age that we can do it with them, too.

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WhoKnowsWhereTheTimeGoes · 12/04/2014 22:00

I think it's great if you have fussy eaters (we do) as everyone can have a different meal which obviously isn't going to happen at home. I also like the change of scene, the lack of washing up, etc, etc. We had a really nice pub lunch on a roof terrace overlooking the sea yesterday, lovely.

Hate carveries though, we don't have roasts very often at home but they are so much better home cooked.

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MusicalEndorphins · 13/04/2014 00:19

I like eating in restaurants so I don't have to cook or clean. I do like cooking but it is harder to do these days.

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WilsonFrickett · 13/04/2014 00:37

I probably would have been a bit Confused at this thread, had I not recently moved from a city to a tiny, yet very touristy, village. In the city the food is amazing, and we ate out weekly, cheaply. Here in tourist-ville, it's a minimum of £60 for two courses and two drinks and it's shit, because the tourists keep coming back.

Luckily we're still in easy reach of the city, but not so much that we can still drag DS out on, say, a Tuesday night just because I don't fancy cooking.

So yes. While I love eating out, I actually don't think you are being U.

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Me2Me2 · 13/04/2014 01:00

I love eating out because I don't have to do anything.

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halfdrunktea · 13/04/2014 07:27

I agree based on where I live now. The options for eating out are generally mediocre. Pub food can be OK but tends to be expensive. In my pre-children days, I enjoyed it more, and I enjoy it if I'm in a big city with more culinary options. With small children it's not much fun either! But I do enjoy not having to clear up after meals.

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Marylou62 · 13/04/2014 08:46

As a migraine sufferer, so many ingredients are off the menu for me...cheese, red wine, MSG. I get embarrassed asking if there is red wine in the gravy, cheese in the sauces etc. I don't really enjoy eating out that much as usually there is limited choice for me.(I know this is my fault as I have had some horrendous migraines...think 3 days in bed, crying in agony with Dr coming and giving me injections, so maybe a bit too fussy...but cant help it!!) When my parents come to my seaside village on holiday, we eat out 2-3 times and I always end up with the same thing. JP with tuna. Ask for no cheese and 50% of time I have to send it back! BUT love eating breakfast out! Just waiting for all the DCs to wake then we're off for a fry up! DS1 home after 4 months away! Yummie!

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FourArms · 13/04/2014 12:55

I like to go to Morrisons - less than £10 for 2 adult meals, 2 child meals and drinks.

Otherwise we probably eat out once a fortnight, but usually somewhere mediocre. Kids make it a fairly miserable experience unless we're somewhere like Pizza Hut or McDs as they're so picky.

On my low carb diet it's easier to spend a bit extra on a nice meal at home.

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LaQueenOfTheSpring · 13/04/2014 14:49

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Bunbaker · 13/04/2014 15:04

"I like to go to Morrisons - less than £10 for 2 adult meals, 2 child meals and drinks."

But the food isn't great.

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2rebecca · 13/04/2014 15:18

When the kids were young eating out was something we only did when away from home as it was much more pleasant staying in. As teenagers I enjoy eating out with them but they're not fussy eaters. They're often now out round friends so my husband and I will go out for a meal together sometimes, but we more often get a take away. We don't generally go to posh places though, just walk to the nearest good pub and there the staff are too busy to hover and faff. If we've both been working its nice not to cook.
We avoid eating out at weekends as it's busy plus we have more time to cook.

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FourArms · 13/04/2014 19:05

Bunbaker - their fish & chips is my favourite anywhere! Esp since I only eat the fish and it's always big fresh pieces :)

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thebody · 13/04/2014 19:07

Depends whose cooking!

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thebody · 13/04/2014 19:07

Depends whose cooking!

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