ex picked kids up from nursery without telling me.

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so I poco kids up everyday they go to nursery because I drive and he doesn't and has form for getting taxis without car seats (toddler and baby) . set of to pick them up today to find he has picked them up, messaged him and he wouldn't bring them back, we have set days that he sees them.

safe to say I am fuming about this but I know they are safe and he is just doing it to wind me up.

how do I stand on telling nursery I will be picking them up unless I say otherwise? obviously he is there Dad but we have set days and now I won't see them until the weekend and unbeknownst to me he had already booked day of work tommorow (found out on facebook!) and will not be sending them to nursery even tho I have to pay (another way to piss me of)

where do I stand with all this? any advice greatly appreciated

Going to court isn't too expensive, if you represent yourself. It sounds like you need it formalising, and then you can show nursery, as they can't not release them if no court order.

I second telling him "Thanks for that, I had a date night with Bob from the gym, and we had sex in every room while the kids were out, it was really kind of you!"