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AIBU?

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To feel the butt of a practical joke?

8 replies

SuiGeneris · 07/04/2014 23:29

Official-looking letter- I open it and am surprised to find it is from 10 Downing Street. Read on. Gushes on about new NI breaks for employers which will save me £2,000 a year and how the writer hopes I will take on more employees as a result. Surprise. I was fairly sure these cuts did not apply to us evil employers of domestic staff but, I say to myself, surely they would not write to me if that was the case? Oh yes they do!

Ok, I understand why everybody but those employing domestic staff gets this cut. Though quite why making it cheaper to hire a nanny who enables a mother to work is so much less worthy to society than making it cheaper to employ, say, a beautician, I do not know. But at least do not write to me about the wonders if a tax cut that does not apply to me!

AIBU to feel the butt of a practical joke?

OP posts:
Tessdurbevilliespoon · 08/04/2014 18:30

YABU to use the phrase 'domestic staff' in this day and age

Tessdurbevilliespoon · 08/04/2014 18:31

YABU to use the phrase 'domestic staff' in this day and age

SuiGeneris · 09/04/2014 08:39

Why on earth is using the technically correct term unreasonable? Domestic=of the house. Staff=employees.

What would you consider a reasonable collective noun to refer to cleaners, gardeners, housekeepers, nannies, cooks etc?

OP posts:
sparechange · 09/04/2014 10:11

What is wrong with calling them 'domestic staff'?
Confused

Tessdurbevilliespoon · 09/04/2014 10:22

It just makes them sound like appliances rather than people and is a bit snobby I think. Before you start calling jealousy, I have someone who works for me as a 'house keeper' and another person who works as a Nanny and I employ a gardener too. I think only try hards and really old aristos would use domestic staff to be honest.

SolidGoldBrass · 09/04/2014 10:24

WTF? It's not like she called her employees servants! I think 'domestic staff' is a perfectly reasonable term.

Tessdurbevilliespoon · 09/04/2014 10:27

No need to use that language to me solid I just don't like the term and said so, inoffensively so please return the courtesy

SavoyCabbage · 09/04/2014 10:33

I don't see how it's different from office staff, teaching staff etc.

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