I'm not sure if this is a big deal or not, would appreciate opinions.
Went to a big daytime event with a group of friends at the end of last week. Have been looking forward to it for a while, good excuse to get dressed up, have a few drinks and a girly gossip, you get the idea.
So, I meet up with friends on the day. I am done up to the nines in something from Karen Millen; 3 of the others have made no effort, 2 are wearing clothes you might wear to go shopping at Asda, another has no makeup on because she didn't have time to put any on. Last friend looks similarly attired to me (thankfully), however had a big puffa type coat on which obviously didn't 'go' with the rest of her outfit because she was cold . The others all have smarter clothes (there's no issue of money/not being able to buy anything - they do have dresses etc which they've worn when we've been out previously), but just didn't bother wearing them.
I felt uncomfortable being so dressed up with them, everyone else there was very much smarter and I felt we just looked a bit wrong.
Anyway, decided to get over myself and enjoy the day. One of the less smartly dressed friends gets completely hammered, to the extent we have to carry her out, and phone her DH to pick her up. She then gets hysterical, crying, being sick etc, because he has things to do and can't come and fetch her (he does) so we have to spend ages trying to calm her down.
Other friend asks to borrow £30 for drinks as there are no free cash machines at the venue. On the way home later, I suggest we go via cash machine. She said she can't, as she doesn't have any money in her account, but will pay me back when she next sees me (I'd not seen her prior to this since before Xmas, so I won't hold my breath).
Other friend earlier kept making what I can only call digs at me - I was trying to get puffa-coated. (Tiny, size 6) friend to part with it. Other friend says 'ah she feels the cold, not like us bigger girls' (she is a size 18, I'm a size 12...) And then later on said (about getting older as we are all turning 40) well, when you look like us, we don't need to worry about wrinkles and losing our looks 
. It was all topped off by bumping into some directors from work, who invited me to join them for champagne (they had several bottles) when I returned friend referred to them as 'flash' and 'not our kind of people'! I was speechless by this point.
All in all it wasn't a great day, just a bad combination of things I can put down to coincidence, or anything more