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Seriously why would you send someone this?

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NCOBVIOUSLY1542 · 07/04/2014 01:30

NC as this may out me.

So today I've received loads a inboxes on Facebook from LO's dad. I blocked his account and he made another one same name, picture, info etc.

He stated that he would take me back to court just to see me even go to the contact centre just to see me and he doesn't want to see my son, admitted to making up things which he is going to use in court. I ignored him he wished me dead, stated i deserved the beating i got as i should of just done as he said.

I than got email from his loon of an ex stating this;

"You need to leave XXXXX alone! He's my boyfriend, he doesn't want you or your fucking inbred skanky child he chose me and you need to deal with it. I don't want you to fucking talk to him ever again you stupid cunt.
If I here that you have been ringing/texting/facebooking him again you'll wish you and skanky cunt of a child where dead in a ditch.

He hates you, he hates your child I'm warning you leave him alone if you think you're life has been hell now wait until I get involved with you.

Now just fucking disappear you dirty trampy cunt"

I mean they're both 36-40 years old. I'm at least 15 years younger than them.

People fucking baffle Confused me however I will be using this in court. Hmm

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PunkrockerGirl · 07/04/2014 09:42

Classy. Please report them, OP - they have threatened you and your child.

NeedsAsockamnesty · 07/04/2014 09:55

Why on earth have you not tried to get a none mol?

He does not need to take you to court for you to do that, legal aid is still available for DV if finances mean you can't get that the application only costs £70 or there abouts, you can get help filling it out from

www.childrenslegalcentre.com/ and further advice about court

sarahquilt · 07/04/2014 10:00

Call the police - that's a death threat!

wheresthelight · 07/04/2014 10:00

Contact the police and your solicitor immediately! You now have written evidence and they have threatened your life and that of your child.

They are both utter scum but please report them. They can denybwhat they like but you have evidence and the onus is on them to prove they didn't send it

WilsonFrickett · 07/04/2014 10:04

It sounds to me that you are completely ground down by their shit and just want it to go away, but unfortunately that isn't going to happen. You have to make it stop. Screenshots as everyone has said, report to police and keep reporting to police, see a solicitor about a non-molestation order. I really do understand that coming out fighting feels like you're just bringing more trouble to your door, but this isn't going to stop by itself.

I'd also contact women's aid for advice and support. And keep posting - I know posters on relationships and legal are good for the practical advice of the legal situation and we're all here for hand-holding too.

ellenjames · 07/04/2014 10:06

call the police, your child has been threatened, why wouldn't you call the police?

justtoomessy · 07/04/2014 10:09

I'd be asking the to speak to the head honcho at the police station and asking why this matter is not being resolved and why they are not being stopped from harassing you and threatening you. That they need to act. Then get in touch with a domestic violence support team and ask them to get involved. Write emails to the police clearly stating that the harassment is continuing and you want answers. Get that paper trail going.

NoodleOodle · 07/04/2014 10:12

Police.

How old is your child, do they have their own fb account? IF so, check their account too in case they're received something.

RedPony · 07/04/2014 11:10

OP I'm so sorry this is happening to youSad regarding them denying it - the police will be able to prove it was them by their ip address. If they have made up a new account they would have only be able to make the account from a laptop or computer and the police can trace the ip address to them. They can also take their phones or computers and search through them and will be able to see what they have posted using them. I'm not 100% sure on how it all works but I know they can do it.

carry on taking screen shots of the messages too. Your Facebook should also save messages that have already been received even after the other person has deleted/blocked you. face book keeps a record of everything so your ex and his gf are incredibly stupid using fb to harass you as they will get caught!

I hope it gets sorted for you soon. Please try to not let it get to you too much. You are so much better than them!! Thanks

Misspixietrix · 07/04/2014 11:29

Ring 101 and show the screenshots OP. She sounds as deranged as him. They're welcome to each other but dont let them get away with it.

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NCOBVIOUSLY1542 · 07/04/2014 13:48

Have hidden my account so nobody can see.

Will get a new laptop soon just in case

I'm just fed up with it and fed up with the police doing nothing about it.

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NCOBVIOUSLY1542 · 07/04/2014 13:54

The thing is he looks like a skinny Gru from despicable me and she looks like the original Gru with blonde and pink hair

She is also banned from the Court house as per his family!

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