If you invite yourself, you shouldn't invite others too

[DubBgoodToMe]

Night out planned. Some people have invited themselves. Perfectly fine. We generally love them. Now they've invited someone else we've never met. Could be awkward/could be really good. Have very close family to this person and it ended in a huge fallout and me having a very big argument with them. I never argue, I am placid as a potato.

Either way, the whole attitude to the night has now changed because if this and now instead of being a fun night out its a family affair and everyone's on best behaviour.

You don't invade someone's night out and then bring more people along do you?

I'm being deliberately vague to remain anonymous. Sorry

Have net very close family *

Met. FFS

Very cheeky. They should have at least checked if you minded them inviting someone else first.

Nope. It was a 'ok see you there. X and y are coming too' DDs DF didn't even know who they were. I worked it out from previous conversations. He is naaahhht happy.

If they have the neck to invite themselves, they are bound to have the neck to invite others too!

Yanbu

Rearrange?

Could do. It's a little cold tho.

Problem is one person is quite flaky so if the people who invited themselves done come he prob won't either.

I'm hoping the people invited by those who invited themselves will drop out for various reasons. We'll see...