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to think my illness radar might be off?

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CailinDana · 04/04/2014 08:06

I'm originally from Ireland where every visit to the GP costs 60 euros. It's always cost quite a bit of money to see the GP so growing up we were only ever brought to the doctor when we were really ill, as in, not eaten for a week can't get out of bed ill. I wonder has it made me blase about things that other people consider doctor-worthy. My friends here in the UK bring their children to the doctor for runny eyes, a cough, a temperature, stuff I wouldn't even consider bringing my child for. A friend of mine said he was very worried about his DD last week and brought her straight to the doctor for symptoms that my DS also had. I just thought "Oh he's ill" and waited for him to get better.
So now I feel a bit unsure of myself - when should you bring a DC to the doctor? Am I being too complacent? I only see a point in going to the doctor if I feel antibiotics are called for (neither of mine has had anything like that in 3 years) or if they're floppy and unresponsive, having difficulty breathing or in obvious pain (again, never happened).

AIBU to ask you to recalibrate my illness radar?

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PoppyFleur · 04/04/2014 13:40

No one has said do not take a sick adult or child to GPs, it's people who clearly just have a cold or virus that will naturally clear with a few days rest & a bit of paracetamol that should not be permanently at the Gps.

My sil feels aggrieved if she goes to GP & doesn't leave with antibiotics, this to her is a sign of a failing GP not doing his job right.

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