would you take this job?

[havenever]

Its a WWYD, rather than AIBU....

I have a Masters degree and 5 years experience in the industry in which i work (was a career change, so have lots more work experience). Eighteen months ago I left work and started a course to change career again for more family friendly hours and job security. I suffered stress/anxiety/exhaustion and had to stop this. I am a LP to a 3yr old and an 8 yr old.

So now I am looking to re-enter the work place. There are not many jobs about. I have been offered a job on a graduate wage. On the 1 hand I am gutted. On the other hand I am a bit scared about going back to work and feel a lower wage will mean less is expected of me, initially. The job seems as if there will be good training opportunities and the people seem nice.

Would you take it?

Perfect. Now go prove you're worth it! good luck

thanks! Ive accepted now. Im looking forward to the actual job. Just feel an arsehole, for being in this position in my 40s. i wish I was one of those dynamic confident go-getters, that make all the right life choices!

and, sometimes, I wish I was a man!!

Go for it!

I would accept what they are offering and once you have your foot in the door, keep an open mind about any other opportunities.

They will have set the salary and job description based on what their company needs, not on what you are coming in with. oK they may be prepared to flex a bit on salary, but the job they are offering is what they need.

I did something very similar when I re-entered the workplace after a higher degree and some time out as an LP. I took a job at what I'd previously have considered to be a starting salary (despite 10 years' previous experience in an adjacent field). I didn't feel particularly good about it as it felt at the time like going backwards so I understand your hesitation. But after exactly a year I got another job on a much better salary and progressed quite quickly to my current salary which is fully commensurate with my qualifications and experience. So yes, go for it, and see it as a step in the right direction.

Just feel an arsehole, for being in this position in my 40s.

You're far from alone there. And not just for being in your 40s.