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If a pre-school shuts at 12 then I expect to pick up at 12 not 11.45

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haveanA1day · 31/03/2014 16:26

DD goes to pre-school for her 15 free funded hours a week. The hours are 9-12 every morning. Except in reality it is 9-11.45.

When she first started attending I would turn up a few minutes before 12 to find dd was the last one there and the pre-school staff were literally chomping at the bit for her to leave - literally rushing us out the door. They told me that although officially pick up time is 12 parents are encouraged to collect their child from 11.45. So then I started arriving at 11.50 only to find again that dd was the last child there! A couple of days I was running late and got there at 11.55 same story, dd in her coat waiting for me.

I have now started turning up a few minutes before 11.45 to ensure dd is not the last there and to avoid the cold shoulder from the staff. However, I work from home and this means that even though its "only" 15 minutes dd and I are losing out on it makes a difference in terms of scheduling work, replying to emails, phone calls etc

More importantly dd (and all the other children) are losing 1hr and 15 minutes of pre-school time a week. The government is funding 15 hours and yet the pre-school isn't providing this.

I think the issue is that the nursery opens again at 1pm for the afternoon session so the staff want to start their lunch break/prepare for the afternoon session.

AIBU to think this isn't on? On the other hand I'm sure I would be very unpopular with the staff if I made a fuss?

OP posts:
stinkysox · 31/03/2014 17:27

I had a similar post on here a few months ago.
Ds's pre school hours are 12.15-3.15. The school next door finishes at 3 so the parents with older dc will collect their pre schoolers at the same time. I don't have older dc and found myself fighting to park at 3 so that ds wasn't waiting in his coat, with the staff being huffy. In the end I told them I wouldn't be collecting ds until at least 3.10 so could they not have him waiting in his coat feeling like he'd been left behind!
Op, YANBU. Have a word with them.

Nanny0gg · 31/03/2014 18:18

You are paying for 3 hours per day (not all children will be funded). Your DC should be receiving 3 hours of care per day. They are taking the mick.

Who is in charge? Does it belong to a school? I would be taking it much further.

InAGrump · 31/03/2014 18:36

No particular advice but YANBU op.

Aeroflotgirl · 31/03/2014 18:59

Yes I would take rumbles idea and contact LEA early years or Ofstead. They are loosing over 1 hr per week!

MiaowTheCat · 31/03/2014 20:08

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BettySwollocksandaCrustyRack · 01/04/2014 10:35

Nickelbabe - yes at 5 I get my coat on, grab my bag and leave, it takes me one minute as I only have myself to worry about and not 30 small kids.

But thanks for the tip :)

anklebitersmum · 01/04/2014 10:42

What a flipping cheek! If you were paying you'd be being diddled for over an hour a week.

I'd be banging on the door at 8.45 and demanding in on the basis that they want out 15 mins early.

Complain complain complain you are so NOT being unreasonable.

TheScience · 01/04/2014 10:47

YANBU

If they are claiming funding for 15 hours they need to provide 15 hours.

redskyatnight · 01/04/2014 11:25

Is it a lunch break thing?
Our local pre-school runs 9-12 and 12.30-3.30 (to tie in with attached school). They basically want the children gone by 12 or it eats into the staff's break. They have a "soft" finish so you can pick up between 11.45-12. Sounds like same thing at your pre-school.

goodmum123 · 01/04/2014 11:32

I work for an advisory team and this is the sort of stuff we deal with daily. You must report it. 1 hr 15 mins a week per child at approx 4-5 pounds an hour is fraud. Please report it as this is not on.

TheScience · 01/04/2014 11:35

Most nursery schools here seem to run 8.45-11.45 and 12.30-3.30 for that reason. Sounds like the OP's pre-school need to build in more lunch break day in their day.

MissUumellmahaye · 01/04/2014 11:37

Our preschool runs its 15 hours of free provision 9.15 to 12 each day. No mention ever of where the extra 15 minutes goes. And it costs us £20 per month.

KellyElly · 01/04/2014 11:37

Mine is similar. Can't drop off until 9 and have to pick up at 11.50am as teacher needs o have lunch before the 12.30 afternoon children arrive. I always wonder if they have to picked up at 3.20pm or also lose the 10 mins that the morning children do.

WhatsTheWordHummingbird · 01/04/2014 11:40

An hour is a pretty sizeable gap in the middle of the day so I dont see what their rush is.

As someone upthread said, one going round straightening, another at the door calling the kids over and one doing stories/songs. Even if they dont get sorted tjl 12.15, thats still 45 mins, quite a good size break.

TheScience · 01/04/2014 11:57

I missed that they have a whole hour between sessions! In that case they are being totally unreasonably or are lacking organisation. An hour is more than enough time to have a 30 minute lunch break and clear up/set up.

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