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To think that people (girls/women) are more attractive these days?

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moomin35 · 25/03/2014 17:44

When I see pictures of girls and peers on facebook I can't help but think how good looking everyone is. In my day, whilst my friends were certainly not ugly, we were all, well, very ordinary! If you were good looking (I'm talking 90's early 00's I guess) then you stood out and were spoken about (in a good way!). Nowadays there are beautiful people everywhere, anyone else think this too?

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soontobeslendergirl · 25/03/2014 22:54

Actually - ignoring all the make-up and fake stuff. All this baring it all for Cancer recently had me thinking the same as the OP - yes, a lot of people were using filters or taking lots of photos etc. But, I was pleased to see how good looking everyone was without the slap and the young girls looked lovely all fresh faced.

Maybe all the munters are just keeping their our heads down........ :o

IfNotNowThenWhen · 25/03/2014 23:17

Plenty of munters in my town Grin its why I live here

Tinkywoo · 25/03/2014 23:34

I wrote a long post and lost it!

Young people of today take much more care of themselves. Today's look is very well groomed. I have noticed young boys take good care of their appearance with their quiffed high tops.

In the early 90's young people had less pressure to look immaculate. There was a lot of emphasis on branded clothes which were expensive - Nike/Kickers/Naf Naf/Oilily/Benetton. Anyone who wore these were classed as cool. Cheap clothes were hard to come by 20 plus years ago unless you shopped in Mark One or on the market.

I went to a wedding recently and a young family member and friends (aged 15 at the most) were caked in make up. Foundation, drawn on eyebrows, eyelash extensions, the works. It looked so unatural to me but what would I know!

MyBaby1day · 27/03/2014 05:14

No, not really. Infact my DM is always saying how much bonnier babies were years ago.

KatnipEvergreen · 27/03/2014 05:38

I don't agree at all, we look back at old photos and they look outdated, it doesn't mean people are better looking now. I think loads of girls and boys make fashion faux pas now in exactly the same way as I did in my teens and twenties, just in a different way. In another few years, grunge could be in again and thirty-somethings will be laughing at their high-maintenance style of their youth.

BranchingOut · 27/03/2014 06:56

I was a teenager in the late 90s and, being the era of grunge, there was a huge emphasis on being natural.

I went to sixth form with lots of other mc girls who had plenty of pocket money. No one was troweled in make-up, or had highlighted hair. In fact, wearing too much make up was seeing as trying a bit too hard and being 'tarty'. Not that that insult would stand up to much feminist analysis...

NotJustACigar · 27/03/2014 07:03

Completely agree with WilsonFrickett - and spending all this time, money and effort on looking good isn't necessarily a good thing!

carabos · 27/03/2014 07:17

Agree with others who say it's about products, expertise and pressure. In one of my clients there is a team which has four or five young women in it - mid 20s.

They come to work looking as scruffy as you like, no make up, unwashed, scraped back hair, tatty, unwashed clothes and one of them literally stinks.

Look at the pics they share on their phones from a night out and they are unrecognisable. They are all red-carpet ready, with ultra long, expensively coloured hair - highlights, extensions etc. Shellac nails are a minimum, eyebrows are astounding, tan is applied the night before and then topped up 4 hrs before the event. Getting ready for a big night out takes all day, which they get very stressed about. Application of make up alone takes an hour.

They all live at home and spend a huge percentage of their salaries on clothes and makeup. They all have waxing, mani-pedis and entry level treatments such as Botox, chemical peels and boob jobs.

They aren't stupid. Most of them are university educated and take the way they look very very seriously. What they don't do, is eat healthily or exercise properly. They rely on makeup and great clothes to disguise their lack of muscle tone and pasty, unhealthy skin.

I don't get it myself. I think they should get more balance. Smarten up for work - don't smell would be a start, and stop worrying about how to fit in all the time it takes to achieve and maintain the footballers wives look outside work.

Buddy80 · 27/03/2014 07:43

I too agree there is now the added "pressure" to look your best.

I am in my late 30's and when I was starting out at work in the 90's it was boxy suits and clumpy shoes for me Smile

I have really frizzy hair and my only real option at the time was to wash and try and straighten it very badly (I used to put it in rollers to "smooth" it out Hmm). Nowadays, I could just go to the hairdresser and get it done and problem sorted!

Also, stuff like eyebrow waxing, eyelash tints, etc. We really did not go in for any of that. I think it was around, but deemed as "glamorous". Many beauty treatments by a professional was seen as either a treat, special occassion or for someone older (with money!).

Many of my cosmetic flaws back then could have easily been remedied. My clothes could have been reaserched and bought on the internet. Instead of taking a pricey gamble on what fitted on the high street.

Now it is seen as "taking care of yourself" as oppossed to being vain or obsessed with appearance.

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