Sorry for posting again- i just love the help and honesty, the feedback of such a wide selection of women is fab :)
(Plus all my mates seem to be martyrs/ doormats to their dh's- or the complete opposite and dragons!!)
So- is i unreasonable to expect 3 lie ins a week. Dh is currently doing very easy work sat down all day 9-5 , e goes to be early with me and is up at 8 he has quick shower and tea (that I make him) then he's out the door. I get a lie on on a frid or sund generally i dont even sleep, but have learnt to lay and relax regardless. I get up about 8 and then get ready then watch dd while dh gets ready. Then i go do a couple i hours i work on those days he is off. It annoys me hat my lie is abruptly jolted to a holy as soon as i step out of bed to watch dd while he showers etc, but when its his lie in or his day to go to work I have to watch dd solely while he rushes about and shoots out the door. I would now like a day in week where I can sleep in till 8 (dd i up at 6 ) and then get up and watch dd while he gets ready for work and goes for 830. Is this unfair? I jut feel he i setting so much sleep 9-8am some nights! And i am often tired having to get up at 5 some days. Then my lie in / morning off is is often shared with helping with dd too while he gaffs about. I know this sounds petty but i alway have everyone saying how lucky i got it cos dh bathes dd and is generally more hands in than most dads . If everyone would see it is me that does the bulk of it and dh is just a typical bloke doing less i would feel better. I just alway have to hear how fab i got it by my dm and mil. Am I being unreasonable? Asking too much? Has tiredness got me petty ? When i confeonted him this morn for not getting up with dd at 545 am as I am had no sleep all night he called me a stupid bitch. :/