Last term dd had a few issues with a classmate. This child was taking dd's cake out of her packed lunch each day when dd wasn't looking. She always ensured she was sitting next to dd and would whip it right from under her nose! Dd just thought I had stopped putting it in.
When I became aware of this I spoke to class teacher who out a stop to it. The child's mother insisted that both children had agreed to "share". Not true, dd has ASD and very straight forward, if they'd agreed to share that's what dd would have said.
Since then this child makes comments too dd from her mother eg dd has a bad diet with too much sugar. Dd's packed lunch consists of a wholemeal sandwich, three pieces of fruit or salad water and a small piece of cake or muffin. Her diet is quite restricted because of her ASD and I just want to get calories in her during the day and actually I think that's a pretty healthy lunch anyway!!
I won't but I feel like telling this "mum" to butt out and stop making comments about dd's lunch or find a way to work into convo that dd has ASD and restrictive diet etc followed by so butt out and MYOB I would also like to say perhaps you don't feed your child ENOUGH sugar and that is why she's pinching dd's cake
Anyway as I said petty but annoying as dd is worrying about it as she is highly anxious.
Would you say anything?