I love my parents deeply and would defend them to the last... But i find that the relationship with them is hard work, we often argue despite not seeing eachother a lot. I also find inlaws unbearable- (though they are,literally, nuts)
I just feel like such a failure that I seem to alway be at logger heads with someone in the bloody family.. I dont argue wrh friends, dh (much) etc... Just family. I know it is partly me too, so I feel very low and annoyed with myself. I am not laid back and can be neurotic at times- I just wish I could get alog with them like others seem too. It do they? AIBU to presume perhaps lots of families argue regularly though?