to be amused by my boobs

[kentishgirl]

I know it's wrong. I know it's against everything feminist me believes in. But I do find it hilarious when the poor chaps cannot control their own eyeballs. It used to make me angry, but now I just find it funny. Not the dead creepy starers, but the men who know they shouldn't look but can't stop themselves and their eyes flick up and down, up and down. It IS hard not to look at something you know you shouldn't stare at, I have problems with eye flicking people's moles or missing teeth etc. Must be even worse if you are a boob-man.

Just realised I need to watch my habit of leaning forward over my desk at work and resting my boobs on it (sounds weird, but it's a big high desk more like a table top). It's comfy. colleague just came in to talk to me and keep flicking eyes at boobs.

OHs dad simply cannot keep his eyes away from them either. I've taken to wearing high neck tops out of pity for the old boy but they don't seem to help.

I used to work at a customer facing desk and was always very surprised and impressed at the amount of everyday things ladies kept in their bras. I learnt to take money out at night there after seeing a lady whip out her purse one day.

In the past when I wasn't married quite a few men paid no attention to my boobs in bed . I wanted to scream that while they are small they do still feel nice when touched! Granted these were very young men. Both my husbands loved them though.

Small ones are nice too and you have the big advantage of not going so saggy as you age (I'm waiting for mine to hit my knees at some point). I love the androgynous look.

But we get what we get and I think we should all feel happy with them.

I am average size and can't say I have had that much attention although I love my boobs, but my poor DD! She has an amazing size 8 figure with a J-Lo bum and 32G boobs. And is beautiful. (I would say that tho!) From age 14 she has had unwanted attention and I have always tried to explain that I'm afraid she will have to get used to it and walk tall and proud. (she started crossing arms over her chest and hunching over.)I used to walk with her and watch the men literally do a double take. Some, obviously leering, I stepped in front and stared them out!! Now age 20 she is like you OP and finds it amusing!. I also had the talk about not having it both ways, ie not using her figure to attract unwanted attention then blaming the males!

I have always been average size and can't say that I have noticed any unwanted attention but my poor DD! Since age 14 she has had size 32G and a size 8 with a J-Lo bum has an amazing figure. (She's beautiful too...but I would say that!) I have watched men of all ages do a double take when I have been with her and the 'leering' ones got a 6ft Mum between her and them, staring them out! She used to get upset and I explained that she will probably have this a lot and to walk tall and proud. She started hunching over and crossing her arms over her chest. Now, like you OP, she finds this mostly amusing. I did have a talk though about not having it both ways though....not using her figure then blaming the males.

Sorry double posted as thought the post went 'missing'!

Sorry double posted as thought the post went 'missing'!

Weapons of mass distraction my DH calls em

I have a great collection of band set lists, guitar picks, drumsticks and signed stuff just from leaning on the barriers in low cut vests at gigs and talking sweetly to the roadies. I probably set feminism back 50 years though

I use mine as a scarf in winter. I'm prone to losing things so this really helps.

Thank you so much ladies. I don't have much to speak of boob wise, but you've all made me laugh this morning. I honestly needed that!

Personally I'll be sad when men stop looking at my breasts!

And let's be honest, which of us hasn't found themselves checking it the size of a guy's package in a swimming costume?

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