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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

aibu or is shop girl

64 replies

MrsBucketxx · 01/03/2014 11:43

I have opened a business that is in a complex of shops like a small arcade, there is a beauty business upstairs and a clothes shop, the clothes shop previously occupied the space we have rented, when we took out the lease the shop upstairs was given permission from the land lord to place a large sign for her shop on my window.

I said this would be fine for a few days and I then returned it too her as I was painting facias etc. The sign reappeared no more than five or six times after, even after I has asked another member of staff to keep it, this came to a head last Saturday when my hubby returned it and told her in a firm manner (not shouting I was there) not to place it back. Then she told us we where the reason she was quiet as while we have been doing the shop fit, she the moved the sign which kept falling off so I asked for more fixings so it would keep up. She scowled and stomped around while she put it back up.

Since then she moaned to the land lord who seems to think that we should appologise etc (so theres no tension), making us look bad. She has given us attitude all week too.

Tbh I dont need the stress, would you applogise even when you feel you dont have too just to keep the peace, or ignore her as I dont need To deal with her day to day.

OP posts:
thinking101 · 01/03/2014 12:34

mrs partner branding and joint promotion can work very well, but only when the business compliment each other and are prepared to work together. This shop above donest sound nice at all.

OP clarify with landlord how long sign was to stay for.
Speak to the owner of the other business after this.

Mumoftwoyoungkids · 01/03/2014 12:35

From your more recent updates you are definitely not being unreasonable if she hasn't moved.

MrsGeorgeMichael · 01/03/2014 12:38

yanbu. its your window

AlpacaLypse · 01/03/2014 12:38

Us 'pendants' find it very difficult to answer the main aim of the post when it's so badly written that it hardly makes sense.

Mumoftwoyoungkids · 01/03/2014 12:38

It doesn't matter what the landlord says - it is Op's window, she pays rent for it so she can put what she likes in it.

If I rent a house I don't care what the landlord agrees with the previous tenant - I'm not storing their sofa and sideboard!

Funnyfoot · 01/03/2014 12:41

So why bother even commenting the Alpaca?
Just go back to Pendants and slag it off instead.

thinking101 · 01/03/2014 12:48

badly written...funny that...plenty other people seem to have cobbled answers together...

it sneery and nasty to not focus on OP problem.

UncleT · 01/03/2014 13:51

YANBU. No way in hell are you at fault here. You should be addressing the matter further with the landlord, as he actually bears responsibility for souring relations between you and the neighbouring business.

MrsBucketxx · 01/03/2014 14:06

I did try and address it with the landlord he basically said it was nothing to do with him.

Oh well ill do the right thing when I see her.

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nkf · 01/03/2014 14:13

Very strange. I don't understand much of the OP but is it basically that you don't want a large sign for your business in your shop window. I can't see how that can be unreasonable. Why is she stroppy? Because no-one told her you would be moving the sign once you opened? If that's the case, then she sounds a bit silly to be honest. Of course you are going to move the sign.

Funnyfoot · 01/03/2014 15:04

The sign belongs to the shop upstairs not the OP's shop nkf but the LL agreed that shop upstairs could put the sign in OP's shop window without first checking with the OP.

nkf · 01/03/2014 15:12

Thank you. All clear. It'll blow over.

Funnyfoot · 01/03/2014 15:13
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FabBakerGirl · 01/03/2014 15:23

Pendants? HmmGrin.

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