Kids go to 2 activities a week, both swimming lessons, ds does football and dd does brownies. We had 1 free evening a week, as I work 3, one is full of activities so I used to use this free onr for the children's friends to come round and catch up with homework.
Dh asked if ds could start a extra football on our free evening I originally said no as it wasn't fair for dd, he already does football and it was our only free night and I do all other activity running round so after lots of arguing he promised he would be there in time to take him/drop off. Well it's been 4 weeks and twice he's not been home in time, so either ive taken him or he's rang friends to take him which I specifically didn't want him to do as its not fair on them plus they already help us out with childcare after school one night.
I knew I would be right, he works over an hour away so trying to get home was always going to be hard but he said I was being selfish if I didn't let ds go whereas I said he was as this was his childhood football team and only reason he wanted him to go, ds was quite happy with his other team.
I'm so frustrated I knew this would happen I never ask dh to get home for a particular time, he promised he would. I've got enough on to be taking him to and fro and am 6months pregnant so really don't need extra stuff at the moment, aibu? What do I do?