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AIBU?

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To think if your a shit Dad...

39 replies

MeepMeepVrooom · 25/02/2014 09:50

Who doesn't see their child (through their own damn choice), or contribute financially to their child. Taking FB pictures of the child from someone else's FB and posting them on your own is nothing more than a desperate attempt to make you look like a half decent father when infact you are nothing more than an alcoholic, abusive waste of space.

Sorry! I might be being unreasonable but this really has pissed me off. My ExH has taken pictures from my FB and posted them on his. I thought all my photographs were private, I didn't realise the cover photo's weren't.

OK I accept that to post pictures online if I don't want him getting them was stupid but he is computer illiterate so didn't think it would be an issue.

I admit that I am pissed off he has taken pictures of my DD but I am fucking fuming that some of the pictures include my friends children. Children he has never even met. Children who's parents he has never met.

I have reported them and hope they will be removed. I know one of my friends will go mental he has done this as she hates him and quite frankly I'm a bit worried at telling her.

I know there is nothing else I can do apart from report and hope for the best but is it unreasonable to think if you are going to be a shit Dad through choice you man up and have the balls to admit it to others instead of pretending otherwise.

Off for a cup of tea it's too early to drink wine, it's too early to drink wine

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MeepMeepVrooom · 25/02/2014 18:48

I really don't know I don't want to think about it right now. I have the police due about 19.30. Will hopefully be able to get some answers after that.

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BitOutOfPractice · 25/02/2014 18:49

Oh Meep! Stay safe - and your DD Thanks

MeepMeepVrooom · 25/02/2014 18:49

Thank you x

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NeedsAsockamnesty · 25/02/2014 19:06

What a pair of arseholes, them not you.

I hope your ok

Livvylongpants · 25/02/2014 19:12

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MeepMeepVrooom · 25/02/2014 19:16

No the nursery have been aware of the situation for the last 2 years and wouldn't let my DD go without either myself or my mum present.

I honestly have no idea at the thought process behind it. It's insanity.

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Hissy · 25/02/2014 19:18

Oh my god! Are you ok lovey? What a vile arse he really is.

How fucking thick is she? To go and collect a child you've never met from nursery, without checking with the mother?

Anniegetyourgun · 25/02/2014 19:25

I keep saying Facebook is evil! (Though to be fair, they did the right thing in this case.)

MeepMeepVrooom · 25/02/2014 19:47

Yeah DD and I are ok, police came about 19.20 and have just left to go see ExH's gf and him if they can find him.

Thanks ladies.

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NeedsAsockamnesty · 25/02/2014 20:24

So was it the gf by herself?

MeepMeepVrooom · 25/02/2014 21:17

Yeah it was.

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FlockOfTwats · 25/02/2014 23:18

Shit me! What did she say to the school? She must have known she wouldn't be able to.

Do you have a court order in place as in not sure what would happen if the childrens father wanted to collect them - i don't think they can legally stop him?

NoodleOodle · 26/02/2014 00:00

I know he hasn't used any rights or taken up any of his responsibilities so far but, do you know where you stand legally? Does he automatically have parental rights because you were married at time of both, or anything like that?

MeepMeepVrooom · 26/02/2014 09:35

here is the new thread

I started a separate thread with the new situation.

The nursery have informed me they won't release my DD to anyone other than myself or my Mum. I am currently waiting on the police coming back round and a return call from my solicitor. I've been advised to apply for a PSO from other posters so will look into this.

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