So dd lost something important. Me and dd spent ages looking for said item. I was doing housework and tidying at same time. Dh looked for about 5 minutes and than preceded to lecture her on looking after her things. ( fair enough I said same)
After about 4 hours we werelosing hope. Did bedtime for dc and continues search. By than dh was in bed as had to get up early.
I found it in ths last place possible.
Dd was grateful in the morning.
I rang dh to tell him and all he said was where was it. No well done or you must have worked harx to find it etc.
I am feeling so fed up of my efforts going unappreciated. He has even claimed quite recently that I I sit on my arse all day whilst he is at work.
We have 3 dc including an 18 month old so I work probably longer hours as he does really. I do all nightwakings and all bedtimes etc.
I also run a small business but it is suffering as I have so little time to devote to it.
Aibu