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To think that this is a swear word

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Pigsmummy · 23/02/2014 10:47

Twat.

My husband is adamant that it isn't a swear word and it might just be "midly offensive".

It came in conversation just now as last week I asked his Brother not to say it in front of our 16 month old and his brother didn't think that it was an offensive word.

I do not want my child saying this word or other swear/offensive words.

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Pagwatch · 23/02/2014 22:07

You know typing c or c** is exactlythe same as typing cunt - symbols representing a word.
C only works if people see it and don't know what it means.
So c is just twee nonsense. It's the same, exactly, as cunt.

VelmaD · 23/02/2014 22:08

Bloody hell, pissing about and bugger off are fairly common round here - tbh I doubt the teens at school would be badly reprimanded like they would for fuck etc.

I remember the list when I worked in radio of words that should never ever ever be said. Top was cunt. Second was motherfucker.

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Pregnantberry · 23/02/2014 22:17

For me, more sweary than 'bugger' 'crap' or 'bloody', but less offensive than 'fuck' or 'shit'.

I also think twat as in, "I got kicked in the twat", sounds more offensive than "you're a twat". Not sure why.

VelmaD · 23/02/2014 22:22

Pregnantberry - I think because then you are associating the word twat with genitalia as opposed to using it as a generic twit style word? It clearly has two uses and meanings from the posts here.

Forgot about crap. Not sure crap is swearing anymore is it? Though I still wouldn't want my kids saying it.

We need someone to join a stricter forum and try out the sensors :-D though if they're covering their arses for regional offence it would be filtered out. They filter arsenal dont they? And Scunthorpe?!

Smoorikins · 23/02/2014 22:47

It also clearly has two meanings per the dictionary too - certainly in the Oxford English dictionary at any rate.

JustAfloat · 23/02/2014 22:59

I'm in the south east and use it the same as twit.

I never knew it could mean cunt until I was on mn.

Beeyump · 23/02/2014 23:00

Central Scotland here, and have always just vaguely thought of twat as a variant if twit. No way would I class it alongside cunt! (Odd sentence...)

Beeyump · 23/02/2014 23:01

*of

PrincessSophieSoph · 23/02/2014 23:14

I grew up in the south west and had my mouth washed out with soap and water for saying bugger when I was 8!
Twat is a bad word for kids and I wouldn't even use cunt now in front of my parents!

Namefornames · 23/02/2014 23:22

Interesting it has more than one definition.

Lucyccfc · 24/02/2014 01:20

Another one in the NW and it's up there with one of the worst swear words you could use.

My Scottish friends use it and consider it a mild swear word, but then I have friends in London who use the word c**t, rather than the word 'mate'.

We say 'bloody' quite a lot in the NW and my Scottish friends think it's quite rude.

firesidechat · 24/02/2014 07:40

Southerncomforts I use 'knackered' a lot but my mother thinks it's very rude; she says it means 'castrated'! I've no idea if thats' true

Aelfrith, I think your mum's a bit confused. It comes from the fact that old, tired and worn out horses went to the knackers yard to be killed. It does not mean castrated.

frumpet · 24/02/2014 07:41

In the NE and i can honestly say i always saw it on the level with idiot or fool , until about 3 or 4 years ago . I still see it as i did before but dont use it very often for fear of upsetting folk who believe it a very bad word .

FudgefaceMcZ · 24/02/2014 07:53

I'd probably avoid it around children, but then I have 4yo who shouts 'bloody eejuts' at traffic jams occasionally so I probably don't qualify to advise.

nooka · 24/02/2014 08:13

I'm a Londoner and was brought up not to swear at all (nor blaspheme) I don't consider twat particularly sweary (probably about the same level as wanker) nor do I associate the word in any way with my genitals. To me it is not an alternative to cunt but a slightly ruder idiot term.

When my children were small I was fairly careful with avoiding anything vaguely sweary (including shit, crap etc - we adopted 'pants' as our generic swear replacement for a fair few years). Now they are teenagers I don't bother so much.

GlaikitFizzog · 24/02/2014 08:19

On a par with prat here, Scotland! Not nice but not really sweary

Perihelion · 24/02/2014 09:26

Scotland too, not really sweary, unless prefaced with fucking.....
Fanny used quite a bit too, but wouldn't regard it as on the same level as cunt either.

yellowbuttercup · 24/02/2014 10:05

I'm Scottish too and it's definitely swearing! So is knackered. Knackers are balls.

GlaikitFizzog · 24/02/2014 10:12

Knackered is not swearing!! It may be a word people don't like, for what ever reason but it's not swearing.

Anyway, my fav swear just now is balderdash!

ShadowOfTheDay · 24/02/2014 10:15

My Aunty lives here in Orkney - it was not a swearword for us up home.....

GlaikitFizzog · 24/02/2014 10:22

Yes!! My friend is from Twatt!

RiverTam · 24/02/2014 10:29

when I first heard this (prob late teens) I just thought it was a punchier version of 'twit', which is how I used it - I didn't find out until years later that it meant the same as cunt. I've got a pretty good potty mouth (not around DD, I should point out!) and I would only use cunt rarely (if I was calling someone a cunt, they'd really have to be awful), whereas I use twat more frequently - not as bad as a cunt, but more than a twit. I'm from London.

Knackered? That's not swearing!