am i unreasonable about valentines day

[presario1]

hi all, first post new userx
the story is my dp had a serious accident a few months ago.
i visited him every day. paid a fortune and spend hours of my time to visit him. brought him anything he needed, he lives with his parents.
and him mother and i dont get on.
we had a run in around christmas when i brought up a big bag of presents and all she could think ;why did i not visit dp during christmas week?
bearing in mind all that things that go with it, i ate her and we are both in the outs
i didnt not receive a christmas present from my dp or any of his family,
i am bit bitter about that but
my dp had to go back in to hospital 3 weeks ago he knew i was looking forward to valentines day and i told him he 'better make an effort'
when he was in hospital i visited him every day and the day before val i got him chips and a card. on valentines day
i got nothing off him.

not a card or a text message or even flowers to topp it all off my beloved nan is dying in the hospital. far away from me and he brought me flowers the year before and he saw how happy i was.
when since valentines day i have not spoken to him he knows im angry as hell, i even call up on his bad behaviour to his sister and his brother wife saying i didnt get a card or a text message or flowers he rang me in the evening like normal

am i unreasobale? his family are started to text me probably wanted to know the gossip but i cant face them either and i couldnt face telling my friends as i told them he got me 'flowers' im so upset and heartbroken any advice?

[bearsprout]

I am sorry to hear of your loss.

I think from that man's perspective your behaviour might look completely different to how you perceive it (it seems that way to me) and his might be motivated in ways you're not seeing, but I won't go into that when you're just bereaved except to say don't make any major relationship decisions right now, because I think there might have been crossed wires you can address later.

Get through this now, good luck.