Had a lovely morning out with our 4 week old baby, he was peaceful and quiet, sleepy, and happy to be passed around family for cuddles.
Once i got home and my partner left to go out with friends for a couple of hours he whinged and cried the whole time, nothing calmed him down. I tried EVERYTHING!
I am shattered, i have to deal with this throughout the week, so weekend is usually nice to have my partner around so difficult times can be shared. I suppose i was a little frustrated that as soon i was alone the inconsolable crying started. I am aware this cant be helped and is absolutely nobodies fault, still a little frustrating though... But i dealt with it and eventually got him settled after a couple of hours.
Anyway, when my partner returned and asked how we had been i told him. He became a bit uptight and suggested i wad trying to make him feel guilty for going out. He also said there isn't any point moaning about it, as some days will be difficult. Why ask me if thats how he feels?
I wasn't 'moaning', i was just telling him how his son had been, and said i was tired. I have been left feeling like i should just keep my mouth shut and not tell anybody when i have had a hard time...